Argue A Lot at the Christmas Table? Be Glad
Who doesn't dread the Christmas table, with family from far and near, around it? Now a new study says there may be something good about that kind of stress. Arguing with your family may just lead to helping them be open to different ways of thinking, according to newswise.com. “Families who cultivate a culture in which disagreements are voiced may help raise individuals who are less prone to rely on their personal biases when they make decisions,” says Virginia Tech’s Anne-Sophie Chaxel, an assistant professor at the Pamplin College of Business. Arguments often stem from biases which reinforce racial, political and religious beliefs. Chaxel recently authored a study in Journal of Consumer Psychology which found a way to activate a mindset that leads people to become open to questioning existing beliefs, thus reducing their own bias. These findings demonstrate potential for “holiday squabbles to have a functional utility in family circles because they cu...