Rather Give Than Get? It's So Much Better For You
Every Wednesday afternoon I drive down to my church and go upstairs to the little kids' wing -- where my kindergarten and first- and second-graders come in from school. I say "my" because I love these kids. I've been working with them for several years now and I've gotten to know most of them. One little girl runs to me every week and throws her arms around me. I can't tell you how good that makes me feel. Now here's why I'm telling you. A new study has found that giving is better than getting . Yes, the work is sometimes hard. The kids don't always want to do their homework, or read, which they're supposed to do for 20 minutes a day (they love reading with me because I usually let them off early, to play). "The happiness we feel after a particular event or activity diminishes each time we experience that event, a phenomenon known as hedonic adaptation," newswise.com reports. "But giving to others may be the exceptio...